I have been sitting with this for a while and what keeps appearing is the power of words. When we gossip, get into other's affairs, make assumptions about a situation, we are actually transferring those energies into our world.
As we have all wished ill-will on someone, it has absolutely come back into your life. We typically do not see it as we spoke it; however, it comes back.
My request to you: for the next seven days, I want you to make a conscious effort to watch your words. When you begin to talk about another in negativity, STOP, rephrase by saying, "I know they are doing the best they can with what they have in their spiritual toolbox at this now moment. May they be blessed and protected."
I know it might feel uncomfortable at first to actually bless someone that you have less than admirable feelings for right now. You have to have faith that you are a better person for it and continue to be the change that you want to see in the world.
To assist in the process, nature's botanicals can offer great aid. For this particular process, I formulated a Room and Body spray called - Higher Self. You can read all about it at Aromatic Institute.
As we continue this journey together, I love you, am grateful for this experience with you and know that God is and that's my truth,
In heavenly service,